Thursday, 29 May 2014

Life is always unpredictable...........................

ज़िन्दगी मैं कभी कभी कुछ ऐसा होता है
जिसकी उम्मीद नहीं होती!
हम उम्मीद भरा हाथ बढ़ाते है
और लोग उसे स्वार्थ समझ लेते हैं!

हमने तुम्हे, दोस्त समझा था
तुमने दुश्मन, समझ लिया

अफ़सोस है, उस रिश्ते पर
जो परवान, न चढ़ सका

गलती हमारी है,  ना समझ पाये
उन निगाहो को, उन इशारो को

दिल की साफगोई, का अब क्या करे
जब इलज़ाम ही, उल्फत का लगा हो  

अब तो खवाबो में, इंतज़ार करेंगे
उन पर तो बस, तुम्हारा भी नहीं है 

Wednesday, 28 May 2014

People They know, How to hurt....

I can survive almost anything,
As long as the end
But it doesn't mean
I'm not weak, I'm weak
Because I trust the people
In past, I don't care Broken heart, Deception, Scabbing.
Because I had faith.
But today I lost my trust and faith.
I don't know how to live with destroyed faith.
everybody says " Sadness is part of life"
But in my case " life is part of my sadness"
I was try to back in life, 
But I think my mourning isn't over yet.
Or I think sadness and darkness can be very beautiful and healing. 
what is truth I don't know....................

Thursday, 22 May 2014

Woman is not only for entertainment.............

1-A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions

2-When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her isn't always enough.

3-Understand that little things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.

4-Never ever forget her birthday.

5-Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Compliment her efforts, like when she cooks or buys a nice meal.

6-Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.

7-Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, hold out your hand or arm for her, some say this is "old fashioned", not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.

8-Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know you are in love with her.

9-In general, it's best not to say another woman is beautiful or attractive to you

10-"Pretty" and "hot" have their place, but "beautiful" goes right to the heart. Sometimes she'll look hot or sexy, so tell her. Don't tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.

11-If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Be prepared to offer an explanation that is not defensive and not a cheap excuse. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. A sincere apology is the best way to get true forgiveness.

12-Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.

13-Hold her hand like she's your woman and like you're proud to have her beside you. Touch her hand across the table, put your arm around her when your sitting together watching T.V. or at the movies. These gestures will all make her feel protected, special and loved.

14-Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents, you might as well say goodbye to her.

15-If you love her and can't imagine your life without her then make the commitment. Ask yourself this question, "If she walked out the door tomorrow could you and would you want to live your life without her in it?